How to Attract the Mate of Your Dreams
NLP (NeuroLinguistic Programming) which is used by NLP Practitioner and NLP masters, have a rule that states: The meaning of your communication is the answer you receive. That means you get the response of a person depends on how you communicate your ideas to them. If you communicate in a way that you get the answer you want, you have been successful. If not, you need to know what was missing in their communication and how to incorporate that the next time you try.
Notice how this rule places the burden of obtaining a response on you not on the other person. If you extrapolate for this relationship, we can say that, “The kind of person you attract depends on the type of person you are.” Our relationship, and the people that bring in our lives, are just a reflection of who we are, that the point in our lives. If in fact you have a fear of commitment or “losing their freedom,” then you are going to attract a mate with the same issues.
If you do not have self-love or low self-esteem, you will end up attracting people with the same problems. The reason why we see patterns in our lives, so that we abusive or unfulfilling relationships, it is because we have not dealt with the issues that were responsible for creating our own beliefs and personalities. The Law of Attraction says that like attracts like. If you think positive thoughts, you will attract good things to you. If you respect people and do well by them, you will get the same response from them. With the help of NLP training you would be able to respond in a positive manner.